Kanner Highway, Stuart, FL Burial arrangements will be private. Robert P. In lieu of flowers memorial donations in loving memory of Robert can be made to Treasure Coast Hospice, S. Thomas J. Eisenbraun, 75, of Port St. Thomas worked for the Daily News while living in New York. Thomas enjoyed playing cards, suntanning and being the life of the party in his earlier years. He is survived by his wife of 37 years, Dolly Eisenbraun, a daughter, 8 step children, 19 grandchildren and 8 great-grandchildren.
Lucie Blvd. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted in the care of Martin Funeral Home, St. Lucie Chapel. Patricia A. She married Don W. Fielder on December 2, at St. She enjoyed reading, Bridge, golf, travel and the company of close friends and family. She was an adventurer; even trying indoor sky diving with her family at 85 years young! She was dearly loved and will be deeply missed by her husband, family and friends. A celebration of her life will be held afterward.
In lieu of flowers memorial donations in loving memory of Pat can be made to Changing Leads Foundation by visiting: www. Robert Hubbs. Robert Hubbs, 57, of Stuart, Florida, passed away with his long time partner Marty by his side. Kanner Highway, Stuart, FL at am. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in loving memory of Robert can be made to St.
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Marion D. She loved sewing with her sisters and going out to eat. She also enjoyed doing crafts, going to the casinos, cooking and entertaining her family and friends. Marion is survived by her loving husband of 61 years John J. Latwinas, her children John M. She was preceded in death by her sister, Phyllis Grace Price. Emily Schanz. Emily Schanz, 99, passed away on February 17, She had one sister and three brothers, all now deceased. She married Fred W. Schanz in in Cleveland. She was a member of Miles Grant Country Club.
She was predeceased by her husband, siblings, and parents. At Emily's request, there will be only a graveside service in New York , to be scheduled at a future date. Mina L. Jones, 94 of Stuart, FL passed away with her daughter Candace by her side. She was predeceased by her husband Albert E. Paul Hunter. Marine Raiders. The Raiders were the special forces of their time. In , The Raiders were incorporated into the 6th Marine Division.
Paul was wounded in the battles for Guam and Okinawa. He was awarded two Purple Hearts. In , Paul participated in the occupation of Yokosuka at the time of the Japanese surrender. After the war, Paul left the service to pursue his passion of flying, by using the GI Bill to become a flight instructor. In , Paul re-enlisted in the U. He was accepted into the naval aviation training program.
Upon completion of his flight training, Paul was commissioned as a Second Lieutenant in the U. Marine Corps and married Margaret.
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His nineteen years as a commissioned officer included combat in the Korean War and the Vietnam War. During his career he flew several different types of aircraft, but his favorite aircraft was the Chance Vought F8U Crusader. The F8U Crusader was a supersonic single engine jet fighter. He retired in at the rank of Major, and moved to Palm Springs, Florida, to be near his childhood home.
Paul and Margaret relocated to Jensen Beach, Florida, in , to be close to their favorite fishing spots. They enjoyed fishing and travelling around the country until Margaret passed away of cancer in They loved to travel across country to sightsee and visit relatives. Patricia Durso. Patricia Durso, 81, of Port St. Lucie, FL, passed away peacefully with her husband and eldest daughter by her side on Sunday, February 10, Pat was married to Carmen Durso for 60 years and they recently celebrated their anniversary in October.
Pat was a talented floral and interior designer, theater goer and a music aficionado of all genres of music. She was a loving mother of three and grandmother of two who instilled confidence in all of her children, nieces and nephews. Pat was known for her love of reading and keeping her mind sharp with crossword puzzles, but will be most remembered for the love she had for her family and enjoying a good glass of wine. The family would like to thank Treasure Coast Hospice for their compassionate care and guidance.
Jacob Jeremiah Branen. Jacob J. Branen, 29, was killed Monday, Feb. He was transported to Halifax Hospital, Daytona Beach where he succumbed to his injuries. Jacob had a passion for the history and archeology of Israel. One of his greatest experiences was participating in a dig at the archeological site Tel Dor, Haifa, Israel. He loved to travel, making multiple trips to Israel.
He traveled Germany on a school trip as well. He was currently employed as a customer service representative by Teletech, Daytona Beach, FL and also worked as an electronics sales associate for Walmart. Jacob's exuberance for life, his kind and generous heart and his ready laugh will be deeply missed by his family and friends.
Having been born with cerebral palsy, those who were close to Jacob were proud of all his life's accomplishments. A Wisconsin service will be held sometime this spring, with details to follow. Martin Funeral Home, Stuart Chapel, provided the arrangements. David F. Dusty Drew. For many years Dusty and his wife owned and operated Camp Wekeela on Bear Pond in Hartford, Maine, where young people from highly varied backgrounds spent memory-making summers having fun while absorbing life-lessons along the way.
Dusty served on many town committees in Standish and was a past president of the Kiwanis Club and Watchic Lake Association. Dusty was most fulfilled as a mentor to young people both on and off the ballfield. He enjoyed dancing and classical music and looked forward every year to spending summers in Maine mostly in his lakeside vegetable garden and winters in Florida mostly golfing or volunteering.
Dusty had a tremendous work ethic, and was also an organizational genius. Whether it was almost single-handedly bringing back to life the physical plant of a long-closed summer camp, organizing camper or spring baseball trips, feeding all of the athletes at USM during periods when the cafeteria was closed, running a golf tournament at Miles Grant, or overseeing a Kiwanis dinner, Dusty easily took on great responsibility, and had fun while creating memorable times for others. Dusty is survived by his brother Donal F. He was predeceased by his son, Timothy Cronin.
In lieu of flowers, please make a memorial contribution to your favorite charity. The family would like to extend special thanks to Treasure Coast Hospice and to the caring and compassionate staffs of Hay-Madiera House and Harper House. Patrick R. Garofola, Jr. Lucie, FL, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, January 28, He was sadly taken from this life all too soon.
Patrick spent his life in Florida. A native Floridian and resident of Broward and St. Lucie Counties, Patrick made is final home here in Port St. He was a kind and gentle man. An easy-going person with his family always in the forefront. Patrick enjoyed fishing and his job working as a concrete finisher. He is survived by his partner in life, Toni Ragusa of Port St. Also, his paternal grandparents Patricia and Vincent Garofola A Celebration of Life Service will be held on Friday, February 1, with visitation beginning at 12 noon with a service beginning at pm at the St.
Lucie, FL, Janie V. Myers, 58, of Port St. Lucie, FL unexpectantly passed away on Saturday, January 12, She was preceded in death by her first born child, Brian Myers, in ; her brother Jimmy Vaughn in ; and her husband, Jeffery Myers in Janie was born on February 7, Although her given name is Constance Jane Vaughn, she always preferred to be called Janie. She would also answer to Pie Pie, which was a nickname given to her by her mother as a child. She was married to Jeffery Myers in Janie and Jeff lived in Douglasville, GA for several years.
Janie wanted to live in Port St Lucie because of her work as a mortgage loan processor. Janie was a self-proclaimed southern belle. She loved to cook southern style cuisine just like her mother. She was never shy and would speak to anyone. She had a wonderful, unique sense of humor and loved to laugh.
She also loved to have fun and had many friends who cared for her deeply. Janie had a relationship with God and accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior. Those who love her find great comfort in knowing that she is now resting peacefully with Jesus Christ. Janie was loved unconditionally by her family and will be profoundly missed. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, for we walk by faith, not by sight. Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord.
Arthur Charles Schuck, IV. Lucie, FL, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, January 8, Arthur graduated from Port St. Lucie High School with Honors in He had a way of always making people smile and enjoyed making funny faces and face bombing people taking pictures. Arthur was predeceased by his maternal grandfather George Naulty.
Shaun M. Shaun grew up in Goshen, MA where his love of the outdoors blossomed. He graduated from Smith Vocational High School in Shaun had many great experiences in his short life. He was a volunteer fireman and EMT. He worked at several hospitals in different states as an ER tech. He traveled the United States with his friend when he was Ran the Boston marathon after recovering from major back surgery. Enjoyed fishing, camping, running on the beach, hiking in the woods and just being outside Shaun made many friends during his life and he cherished his family.
Shaun was a kind, caring, compassionate soul who will be greatly missed by his family and friends. Northampton, MA on April 27, at 12pm-5pm. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the charity of ones choice. Robert T. He was very proud to be the first member of his family to graduate from college, The College of the Holy Cross in He served 2 years in the U. He is predeceased by his parents C. Bob was the consummate gentleman and loved by all for his honesty, his loyalty and his smile.
His granddaughter Keira was the love of his life. A Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, January 16, at am at St. Helen F. She had been suffering with health issues for many years.
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Edler on August 3, Their beautiful love relationship continued for 57 years, until his death in She he became a real estate broker with her father. She took time off to raise her family, then returned to work at Buckeye State Bank and advanced to Cashier. Mom, or Oma as her grand and great grand children called her, enjoyed flower arranging, cooking, church activities, golfing, traveling, playing cards, and spending time with her family.
Her wonderful and gentile personality touched everyone she met. She was preceded in death by her husband Paul Edler and her brother Richard Baker. Her sister Ruth Seevers and husband Jim survive her. A niece Kay Bachelder resides in Galion, Ohio. In lieu of flowers, donations maybe made to Peace Lutheran Church. Bonnie Handel. Her partner of 22 years Robert "Bob" Auwood was by her side holding her hand. Bonnie was born and raised in Philadelphia, graduating from Cheltenham HS in She worked for many years in California primarily as an Emergency Room Nurse.
She met Bob in and became an accomplished coastal and open ocean sailor, sailing thousands of miles from Canada, along the US East Coast, thru the Bahamas, and for many years in the Caribbean. Bonnie and Bob were blessed to share and live out a beautiful common dream. They moved ashore in She is also survived by her beloved pet, Abigail The Wonder Dog. She was predeceased by her father Samuel Silver. Earlene T. Earlene is survived by her husband Frank Babbitt, Jr. A Memorial Service will be held at a later date.
Mark Alan Lashley. Working, fishing and cooking were Marks biggest passions in life. He loved to fish. He enjoyed cooking and was a great cook with a passion for gourmet foods. Mark had an extensive group of friends, Most of whom he has known for 30 plus years and some longer than that.
Mark will be missed by all of his family and friends. Dorothea F. She is survived by her son Mark Leimkuehler and his wife Cathy and daughter Jill Leimkuehler-Mazgaj and her husband David; her three grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren and brother Dale Hirschy. She was predeceased by her husband of 65 years, Roy Leimkuehler. Harold Kalbfleisch. Harold was preceeded in death by his beloved wife Elaine Schlee of 53 years.
Harold owned Birmingham Cleaners for 52 years. Services pending. Memorial contributions may be made to the hospice of your choice. Frances Windon. Frances "Franny" A. Fran was married to the love of her life, the late Ralph C. Windon for 43 years and they resided in Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania. Fran was a devoted mother and Nana: she had a special relationship with her grand kids and loved spending time with family and friends.
Fran was known for her love of reading and working jigsaw puzzles, but will be most remembered for telling " the stories of her life" and her sense of humor. Fran's lifetime was dedicated to helping and taking care of others, she always had a smile on her face and never met a stranger. Fannie Gay Timon. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted in the care of Martin Funeral Home. James Howard Noe. Jim knew his wife Margaret since where they graduated High School together. Their paths took different turns and eventually they married in Jim drove for Armellini Express Lines for twenty plus years.
He received the Million Mile Safety Award for no accidents. Jim always had a positive outlook on life. He was a kind person and always had a smile on his face. Jim was also a man that was very strong in his faith. Richard E. He was a longtime business owner. After retirement, he moved to Palm City, FL were he has spent the last 25 years with his bride.
Some of his passions in life were photo editing, wood carving, and restoring classic cars. He was well versed in computers and technology. Kathy Butcher. Kathy passed away at her home in Stuart, FL with her husband at her side, after a long illness. Kathy was active at her church, St. Kathy loved animals and children, but was absolutely passionate about teaching.
She brought many new and innovative ideas into her classroooms. Kathy fought anything that interfered with a child's opportunity to learn.
She was instrumental in getting clean drinking water at South Fork High School, when the water supply was contaminated with lead in the early 's. A Celebration of Life will be held at St. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in loving memory of Kathy can be made to the St. Vivian Clara Doege. Vivian was a homemaker and mother her whole life and enjoyed the simpler things in life but she enjoyed her sewing.
She was predeceased by her husband Clarence T. Sharon Sharrie Vandenberg Skerven. She always wanted to help others and to make every celebration special and spend as much time with family as possible. She was a friend to animals and the earth. Some of her most special times were spent in Hayward, WS on Spring Lake at the cabin with her family. She leaves behind her loving cat, Tinsel. Memorial donations in loving memory of Sharrie can be made to the Humane Society of the Treasure Coast www. Kathleen H. Nagel Butcher. Edwin Jay Stuart. He passed peacefully into eternity on November 18, at his residence in Stuart.
After graduation from Pahokee High School in he continued his studies at the University of Florida and after graduation he then joined the Navy. While stationed in San Diego he met the love of his life Margaret Delano and they were married on August 25, Edwin was a lifelong student-he loved to read and learn and earned a law degree as well as a Masters Degree from University of Florida and later a PhD from Florida State. They were happily married until her death in July He is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.
Edwin loved the Lord and was excited to get to Heaven. Kanner Hwy. Stuart, Florida Online condolences and expressions of sympathy may be made at www. Bruce A. Captain Bruce A. Ungar of Port St. Lucie, FL passed away on November 15, after a hell of a fight against lymphoma. He was charter fishing Captain. Patrick Miner. Patrick J.
Prior to retiring he was an Electrician with I. Electrical Union for many years. Patrick served proudly during WWI in the U. Patrick was preceded in death by his first wife, Mary "May" Paternostro Miner. Patrick loved to go boating and fish, loved a good treasure hunt at the local flea markets and the local Salvation Army.
Whenever he drove he always had a plan for the day of what he wanted to accomplish. Patrick loved to cook and was very proud of his Italian Heritage. Kanner Hwy Stuart, FL. Toney R. William Toney Richard Edwards, 74, restaurateur, designer, and yachtsman died of pancreatic cancer at home in Stuart, Florida, on Saturday, November 10, He is survived by his wife, Maggie Hopp, younger sister Sherri Bilson, and many loving cousins, nieces, and nephews.
He was predeceased by his parents and older sister, the Rev. Judy Nelson. There, at the hands of an old-school waiter, he sampled several dishes he had never heard of nor tasted before. Academically trained in technical theater and design at UT and Yale University, he worked at theaters in Rochester, Minnesota, and Atlanta. He also joined the Durst Organization for whom he managed more than sixty buildings in Manhattan and stabilized seven historic theaters on West 42nd Street in the early s. It was through his work with the Durst Organization that he met Maggie, a photographer, whom he married in after a decade-long courtship.
In addition to food, wine he served as vice president of the Ordre des Compagnons du Beaujolais and community, Toney was a skilled blue-water sailor and a member of the New York Yacht Club and Seawanhaka Corinthian Yacht Club, where he was an active racer and winter frostbiter.
In lieu of flowers, please send contributions to U. Sailing Center of Martin County, Inc. Indian River Dr. Irving M. Levin, 95, died peacefully at his home in the Summerfield community, on Thursday, November 8, with his wife of 41 years the former S. Frances Kelley, at his bedside.
He participated in numerous projects including testing the first inertial guidance system. Kenneth A. Green died peacefully at his home in Hobe Sound, Florida, on Wednesday evening, November 7, , at the age of He was predeceased by his parents, Albert and Esther Green; his sister Winifred; hisbeloved wife of 49 years, Betty; and his wife Delores with whom he spent 12 loving years. He served in the U. Ken was a member of the Pilgrim Holiness Church now Community Bible Church for more than fifty years serving as song leader, Sunday school superintendent, and board member for many of those years.
Working with the Gideons International was an integral part of his life; Ken was a member for over forty years serving in the Broome County camp in New York as well as the Martin County camp in Florida. He held several offices and participated in Bible distributionsin hospitals, high schools, New York city street corners, and even in South Korea. He frequently supplied music at the Binghamton City Rescue Mission and participated in jail ministry on a regular basis.
The Lord was the center of his life and his first priority was to serve Him. The family will receive visitors this Sunday afternoon November 11 at P. The viewing will be immediately followed by a funeral service at P. Matthew Ellison officiating. Box , Washington , D. Kenneth B.
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Ferrin,53,of Hobe Sound, passed away Thursday, November 8, surrounded by his loving and devoted family. Kenny, as he was affectionately known as, had many outside hobbies. He loved being on the water, taking photographs and just enjoying the outdoors life.
He was a wonderful billiard competitor and played on many leagues. Kenny made it to the the Las Vegas Billiard Championship. Most of all, Kenny loved and adored his family. He is predecesed by his brothers Robbie Allen and Randy. Jennifer Anne Wren. After graduating from St. Jennifer returned to Stuart for a brief period and then moved to Boston, MA. She lived in the the Beacon Hills section of Boston for ten years, returning to Stuart area in the summer of Jennifer was very much loved and will be greatly missed and always remembered by her father and her family, as well as her many friends in the Boston and Stuart areas.
Online condolences and expressions of sympathy may be made at www. Sandra Feeley. In the Cape Cod, MA. Sandy retired from teaching in As a child she lived in Avon, MA. She had lived in Sharon, MA. She and her husband Paul had been a snowbirds coming to Jensen Beach since She was so proud of raising her 3 sons. She is predeceased by her sister Carol. Port St. Lucie, Florida. Stuart, FL.
Online condolences and expressions of sympathy may be found at www. Patricia Still. Patti as she is fondly known as, was a true artist. She worked with many mediums such as oils, pencils, paper art and photography. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in loving memory of Patti can be made to the First United Methodist Church, S. Online condolences and expressions of sympathy can be made by vising www. Noreen Trenoweth. Born in Johannesburg, South Africa and lived most of her life, Noreen came to Martin County to be close to her loving daughter Zelle and her family.
She is also survived by her grandchildren Claudia and her husband Jimmy and grandson Craig and many relatives in South Africa. She was predeceased by her husband of 57 hears Charles and and son John and daughter Mavis. LaDon M. As a young woman, she attended MacPhail School of Music in Minneapolis, where she developed her passion for singing.
It is there where she met her husband of 53 years, Wally Johnson deceased. They sang together at over events, including TV and charity benefits. Her devotion to Wally and her passion for music inspired many. LaDon enjoyed an active life including tennis, skiing, and golf. The Mariner Sands Chapel Choir and the game of Mahjong brought her many special friendships and great joy over the years. LaDon was an optimistic woman, always striving for the best in life for herself, Wally, and others. She is survived by her brother James and his wife Barb of Brainerd, Minnesota, along with many nieces and nephews, in-laws, special friends, and extraordinary caregivers.
Harry G. Fritz, Jr. Your Email. Your Name. Dates Stayed Empty 'End date' values will use the 'Start date' values. Show End Date. Date E. Reviewer Hometown. Leave this field blank. Nowhere in it do the parents even YELL at the idiotic girls. Any time any of the mothers comes CLOSE to even questioning her daughter, it's instantly portrayed as lack of understanding and judging. One of the girls has a potential problem with her pregnancy, but instead of using this opportunity to describe the very real situation of birth defects, stillborns and the potential problems that come with pregnancy in general, it's used as a way to draw the principal and her estranged baby daddy back together.
And of course the baby is fine, after extensive testing and surgery. Which brings me to another point. Oh yes, specialists are seen, MRI's are taken, surgery is performed on the fetus - not ONCE does the author talk about the significant medical costs that are being incurred, which is hundreds of thousands of dollars. There is one scene where the mother tells her daughter that she will be on her insurance, and that's it. But when they are going to the doctors nonstop and having testing done, it is all portrayed as a matter of course, that everyone who needs these tests just goes and gets it done and insurance takes care of it.
No financial worries at all during the whole thing. In addition, the three moms whose daughters are pregnant have a fourth friend whose daughter is not pregnant. This fourth friend's daughter actually was the first one to get pregnant and start the pact, but had a miscarriage so her mother is clueless about all of this. The three other friends KNOW that her daughter was involved, but won't tell her out of loyalty to her daughter.
Even the high school principal feels this way! She won't tell her friend that her daughter is in the same situation, but will send emails out to the school board and community defending her daughter and being "proactive" about the situation. It is all about her and she could care less about her "friend. There is a scene where one of them goes absolutely bananas on the fourth mom, completely out of line, and of course the other two moms make the fourth one feel like complete garbage and ask her why she can't just understand why the woman was screaming at her.
The only time they talk to her is when they want her to pull strings on the school board or throw money into their knitting business.
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Throughout the book she is mostly supportive of her terrible friends, even when they call her up to whine about how she should do more to help them. Susan calls her up repeatedly to whine, and beg her to pull strings on the school board, even though it would mean putting her own neck out there, and acts like she's so terrible when she is hesitant to do so at first. Eventually this poor woman's daughter confesses that she was the one who started the pact and first got pregnant, and then she decides she's apparently deserved all this bullying from the other moms and is even MORE supportive.
Nowhere does she call out the school principal for knowing about her daughter's atrocious behavior and not telling her about it, both as a friend and as a school administrator. The other issue I have with this book is the way the men are treated. Universally, the men are treated as nothing more than sperm donors, their feelings and lives given not a thought.
For instance, one of the girl's long-time boyfriend who wants to go to college, become a doctor and actually has plans for his life is seen as heartless and cruel when he becomes angry with his girlfriend for basically ruining his life. It's perfectly ok that she has a baby without his knowledge or consent, but in sticking with the main theme of this book the second he says, "this is not ok" he is portrayed as being a real son of a bitch. In one instance Lily begs him to research and find out what's wrong with her baby, and he tells her, "I am in high school, and not actually a doctor" and she starts lecturing him about being a father and having to grow up.
It's jarring because the entire time they are talking about how they don't need the fathers and now all of a sudden, HE is the one who needs to face reality?? And he IS in high school!! How is he supposed to find out what's wrong with a baby?? The main pregnant girl, Lily, got pregnant with the boy across the street, and although she doesn't want him to know it was him, he figures it out.
He marches to her house one day with his parents and offers to help and marry her yeah right and both Lily and her mother apparently think this is the worst thing in the world. While I do not condone marrying someone just because they got pregnant, he was trying to do the RIGHT thing and support his child. Lily's mother has this internal agony listening to Lily respond, praying that she won't get together with her father's child, who seems like an honestly genuinely nice guy.
Later they actually have a conversation with Lily and her mother where Lily actually says she likes Robbie the boy she got pregnant with for his genes and that's all, she wants nothing to do with him otherwise. Her mother is silently approving of this. Uh, your daughter is using people, changing their entire LIVES forever, for her own selfish wants, and you are only concerned about your daughter feeling independent? She is a horrible human being and so is her daughter. This conversation literally was sickening. Of course, the reason she is so sympathetic to her daughter's moronic decision is because she also got pregnant at 17 and her family totally overreacted.
Her family, especially her father this book hates men gave her some money to go away and never spoke to her again. Her mother is a frigid figure who barely will speak to her even though she calls her repeatedly to try to smooth things over. Eventually, her father dies and she insists on attending the funeral with her pregnant daughter.
At the funeral, her family makes it VERY clear that she is not welcome, yet she insists on staying and making things awkward for everyone during the entire wake. Because, of course, it is all about her. Afterwards her mother has a complete and now wants to be supportive to her pregnant granddaughter. It turns out that the only reason she was such an icicle is because her husband was so against the situation. Members of the school board made up of old curmudgeons who look down on teen pregnancy, like normal people is portrayed as heartless, out of touch with reality, and cruel.
They have this big meeting at the school with members of the community having their say about the whole thing, and of course eventually one of the big wigs in the community makes a plea for the main character to keep her job, accusing everyone there of throwing stones in glass houses because they have problems of their own, too.
Uh, I am pretty sure their problems did not include their children deliberately getting pregnant but whatever. The whole thing is ridiculous. So the principal gets to keep her job and continue on her merry way. But wait! Lily's baby having so many medical issues brings a silver lining - her own father, whom her mother "let live his life with no strings attached" now is back in the picture. See, years ago when Lily was born, her mother also wanted nothing to do with the father because he had goals and dreams and aspirations and she didn't want to hold him back.
Now that he is concerned about his grandchild, here he is, and of course she gets back together with him. Lily points out gleefully that her baby brought her family back together, and this is portrayed as a moving, touching thing. Now that her baby is totally fine, she and her mom and dad can all live together happily. No, really. In the epilogue the girls all have their babies, and are sort of lamenting the fact that they can't go to college yet and their parents won't babysit as much as they'd like, but in general they more slightly wistful than comprehending the fact that their lives as teenagers and young adults are totally over.
They are still happy they had their children. The end. Like I said. View all 3 comments. Apr 07, AmberGale rated it did not like it. The characters were all very superficial and rather unbelievable. The perspective shifts between so many people that there's no time to develop enough of a backstory to make you feel like you knew any of them. The extent to which Susan's job was imperiled by the pregnancy pact was not believable. Why didn't she fight back sooner? And THEN after focusing on the job angle for the whole book, that whole storyline just gets dropped at the end, with bar "Ripped from the headlines," but with no depth.
And THEN after focusing on the job angle for the whole book, that whole storyline just gets dropped at the end, with barely a mention of what happens to her position! The other main problem with this book: it was all dialogue! You can't just tell us! Show us! Maybe if Delinsky could have shown us how conservative the town is, I would have believed her. Instead she just threw out the words "traditional" and "responsibility" a lot. How exactly is a town known for its citizens' responsibility? Also, I thought the resolution as a whole was overly rosy.
Yay, everyone gets to have a baby, the families are all happy, and all will live happily ever after. Oh wait, one had a birth defect, but it was fixable. All better now. I think this was a great concept for a novel even if it smacks of Law and Order stealing from major news stories, but the execution was poor. Jan 23, Laurel-Rain rated it it was amazing. What constitutes a good mother? How much responsibility must a mother take for her daughter's poor choices?
These are the issues at the root of "Not My Daughter. She had her own daughter at seventeen, her parents threw her out, and she has had to struggle alone for all these years. She has made something of her life and stubbornly clings to the hard-won control over her life. She is the principal at her daughter's school. At age What constitutes a good mother? At age thirty-five, she is the youngest principal to ever lead here.
But then she is blindsided by her daughter, pregnant at seventeen. Within weeks, her two best friends are also pregnant and a "pact" is revealed. Suddenly fingers are pointing, questions are raised, a media storm is brewing Her own best friends whose daughters are also pregnant are seemingly her only support system. But in the weeks and months that follow, she discovers untapped strength—something she must draw on when more unexpected disasters loom.
What will Susan discover about herself and what she needs during this trying time? Will she finally be able to share her burdens with Lily's father and her own mother Ellen? What will she learn about herself and about "mothering"? A very dramatic and somewhat unsettling story unfolds as we reach the conclusion and the answers to these questions. Definitely five stars from me! View all 5 comments. Jan 12, Amy rated it it was ok. I found this book to be exhausting and very frustrating. The insipid behavior of the girls in this book was just ridiculous. It is a baby, not a puppy or a stuffed animal.
It's a pact. No, it's not a pack. Yes, it is a pact. Well, maybe it is a pack behavior. At one point, who cares! The only part that made sense to me was Abby's reasoning for starting the "pact" I could understand her thought process Quite frankly the only thing this book made me do was be grateful I had a son, not a daughter. View 1 comment. I usually like Barbara Delinsky, and I did read this book to the end, but I thought it was pretty flat. The characters were underdeveloped and not real. Maybe my problem is that I just can't understand how teen-aged girls could enter into a pregnancy pact in the first place, but I also didn't buy the way the girls and their mothers reacted to it.
May 22, Apzmarshl rated it it was ok. Three bright, college bound teens make a pact to become pregnant and have babies. News of the pact is quickly leaked by one of the friends. The community's anger and disappointment is soon turned on one of the mothers The mother having been pregnant herself at seventeen but still making a successful life.
The story drew me in when I wondered, 'What the heck were they thinking? The gi Three bright, college bound teens make a pact to become pregnant and have babies. The girls decided after a summer of babysitting that they, as mature 17 year old girls, could be better mothers than the ones they worked for. Also it seemed so fun to have something of your own. I would like to offer up that a kitten would have been a better choice. The book had its points. The mothers did question their culpability in the situation, wondering if they had parented wrong.
And as far as the book describes, they probably didn't, but it is a question asked by most parents. It was just a foolish pact between the girls. Once the gossip mill started there were some hard times. It described fairly well what it can be like in a small town where your business is everyone elses. The maturity of the girls seemed to be on target. They were ridiculous fools. And even though Delinsky showed this I was still more than irked. The girls were idiots. They never had a good reason for doing something SO life changing. Beyond the passing mention of adoption or abortion, the options were never really given any creedence.
The main teen Lily said more than once that she didn't want the father in the picture because she wanted the baby to be 'hers'. It made me so violently angry that I wanted to poke her in the eye.
So self centered and immature I wanted the community to rip her to shreds. By the end The babies are all born healthy. All of the parents accept the babies and their daughters. The girls live at home and get taken care of by their parents. I'm not saying that that situation isn't probably true to life at times I just didn't like it. View all 4 comments. May 23, Laura rated it liked it Shelves: mainstream , fiction.
I have a confession: I feel mean writing the review I'm about to write. I have a feeling that Delinsky is one of those bestselling authors who is bound by contract to produce a book every year or at least every other year. The books sell because the fans are loyal, but the quality of the writing suffers. The premise is compelling. Three teenage girls, best friends since childhood, have become pregnant. They have taken a pact to get pregnant and raise their children themselves, sans the fathers. One of the girls is the daughter of their small town high school principal, herself a never married single mother.
Coincidentally, the principal was the same age as her daughter when she became pregnant. The pregnancies begin rumors, and the principal's detractors accuse her of not being a good mother and perhaps not the right role model for the teenagers. Timely, provocative, thought-provoking topics. Here's the rub. The writing quality isn't very good. Maybe it's my pickiness as a writer, but the prose seemed second rate. Too much backstory dumped in the first few pages, too much telling rather than showing, that sort of thing. On the first page, I wanted to begin rewriting the story.
After a few pages, I started skimming, not reading the words so much as picking up the pieces of the plot. After fifty pages, I skipped to the back, read the book club discussion questions those always tell a great deal about the plot and the ending. It's a shame because I think the author is probably capable of better work than this. I had a similar experience with another novel of Delinsky's and didn't finish it either. Feb 02, Crumb rated it really liked it Shelves: fiction , barbara-delinsky , women-s-fiction , domestic-fiction.
I just love books that have realistic characters. I was really able to relate to the characters because they were just so authentic.
Jan 09, Susan rated it liked it Recommends it for: women of all ages, book clubs. Shelves: novel , fiction. I expected soap opera type drama and not much to think about The premise is taken somewhat from newspaper headlines of an actual case that occurred several years ago. A group of girls, high achievers, happy, bright, well-adjusted from "good families" make a pact to get pregnant their senior year in high school. As I could not fathom the "why" of such a situation, it was interesting to see the different motives the author assigned to each girl had for participating in "the pact".
The story centers around four women who are best friends and who are also partners in a small cottage wool business, and their four daughters who are also best friends. The story is told by Susan, the principal of the local high school. Susan knows first-hand the difficulties of an unplanned teen pregnancy; her parents sent her away when she became pregnant and have never forgiven her or been part of her life since then. On her own, she worked diligently to provide a good life and a stable family for herself and her daughter, Lily. The girls' naivete as they planned the pact, their slow realization of the impact it has on themselves, the babies and their families and the reaction of other students, parents and ultimately the town itself gradually unfolds under Ms.
Delinsky's careful writing. Particularly, the consequences for Susan, who is seen by some as a bad mother and unfit to be the school principal which I personally found a bit hard to accept but it made for good drama. What makes a good or bad mother? As parents, are we ultimately always responsible for the actions of our children? In any event, this is an enjoyable read that will give you lots to discuss, with your friends or with your book club and I would recommend it.
Aug 08, Annie rated it it was ok Shelves: fiction. This story takes place in the fabricated, small town of Zaganack, near the coast of Maine and only has three pregnant teenagers. One is Lily.
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